This is real feedback from people who have 3 – 12 months to live. The things they wish they had done differently. 1. They wish they hadn’t made decisions based on what other people think. When you make your decisions based on other people’s opinions, two things tend to happen: - You make a poor career choice: There are too many people out there who studied for a degree they regret or even spent their lives pursuing a career they regret. Whether you’re seeking parental approva